• Adventure

    Are you Living life or Surviving it. What would it take for you to be living your life full out.

    Throughout my 20's and 30's I lived a life of adventure. I travelled the world working as a White Water Rafting Guide.

    What an incredible time that was. Australia, Costa Rica, Europe, Turkey, Africa and Japan.

    In an era with no social media or cellphones I often navigated my way with a topographical map, a compass and a Lonely Planet guide book. Using the phrase section at the rear of the book to find a bed or buy a meal.

    The Universe opened doorways into unknown experiences and connections with people as seamlessly as the water would run down hill.

    This was living full out. Discovering the smells, sounds and hearthrob of the people of different lands whilst navigating rivers and guiding clients through my place in the world and their unknown territory.

     

    Nowadays I am on an adventure of another kind. I am evolving and transforming my being into the Man in the way that deep down I intuitively know wants to show up in the world, with myself, with other people, for the earth I live on and the living things surrounding me.

    This is not an easy journey, there are alot of layers of armour I have developed to enable me to get by, to survive; and its not always comfortable; I discover things out about myself, my culture and my conditioning that honestly at times are horrifying to realise and own.

    There are times when like my river days I am out of the boat and swimming against the current.

    And I am transforming, I am opening my heart and becoming a vunerable Man. A grounded Man, A centred Man. A Man discovering my purpose. I am peeling the layers open.

     

    The biggest tool I now have are my Conscious Feelings.

    And here I bring you to the first distinction : There are four feelings : Fear, Anger, Sadness and Joy.

    When used in a Conscious way these natural energy forces of nature are avaiable to me for their purpose.

    For instance Anger allows me to sense when I am acting within my own integrity and boundaries, when I am giving my centre away to someone or something else.

    My Fear lets me sense when I am following my Bright Principles or when my Shadow Principles are showing up to spoil the extra-ordinary relating and dropping into the soup of every day ordinary low drama.

    And my friend this is where Living Full Out happens. When low drama becomes an unaccepatable way of relating and real connecting and quality relating becomes the norm.

    And it takes practice to exercise these Concious Feelings, just like training a muscle in a gym.

    This is why Rage Club, Fear Club and Sadness Club have been developed.

    Conscious Anger is the first territory to step into, it is the Spaceholding energy. Spaceholding your own self so that you can live the way you want to. Not how others want you to.

     

    The distinction between Feelings and Emotions is also super helpful.

    And I encourage you to read the Article "Feelings & Emotions" to find out more.

     

    There are many other articles to read too. WIthin these articles there are links to more information, websites and workshops.

    This information is not my creation.

    These distinctions and others, plus an entire matrix of building the Next Culture Archearchy is the work of Possibilty Management. Yes you read that correctly. Building the Next Culture.

    Archearchy is where Authentic Radically Honest Women & Authentic Radically Honest Men collaborate together to source life.

    It is time for Patriarchy to die; or else we all die as the destruction and annihilaiton of all living sources on this planet come to an end.

    It might sound dramatic; and its supposed to. The current culture is abouty Scarcity. And I say No to that. Let Abundance thrive.

     

    Please check out my offerings below and I invite you to contact me so that I can be on your team.

    Love Jay .

  • Evolution

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    Unconscious Incompetetence

    Welcome you are here!

    You do not know that you do not know and you do not care about it. That is where you tart

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    Conscious Incompetence

    Entrepreneurial studies

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    Conscious Competence

    1973-1977

    You learn something. You get new results. You try something new and are aware of it. You gain new competence.

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    Conscious Competence

    1973-1977

    As soon as the new thing you learned has become a second nature to you, you are no longer aware of your new competence. It happens automatically. You thus have completed a full circle of Expanding your box. Now you can start again learning something you do not know you do not know.

  • "Law is reason, free from passion."

     

    Aristotle

  • Possibility

    Rage Club

    The purpose of Rage Club is to change your relationship to the feeling and emotion of anger so you can consciously and productively use the energy and information of anger as an adult in your daily life, without being possessed or overwhelmed by it.

     

    Contact me to enroll in the next Rage Club introduction or Rage Club Space.

     

    https://rageclub.mystrikingly.com

    Possibilities

    There is more than one way to do something.

    It can help to have more than your own perspective to see all that is possible.

    I can provide a purposefully gathered team to be with you to discover what is really possible.

     

    https://possibilitycoaching.mystrikingly.com

    Feelings Coaching

    A feeling comes up.

    Is it a Feeling to be used in the now or an Emotion filled with trauma from life.

    I can hold a space that allows you to naviagte this with coaching so that you can use it and evolve.

     

    https://4feelings.mystrikingly.com

     

    https://4emotions.mystrikingly.com

     

    Emotional Healing Space

    An emotion comes along and takes you over, it could hang around for five miuntes, a day or perhaps it keeps looping in your head, the words, the taste, the sensing in your body for days.........maybe its been with you your whole life.

    I can hold space online or in person for you to discover what it is, where it comes from and open the door for healing.

    This is where the magic happens.

     

    https://emotionalhealingprocess .mystirkingly.com

     

     

    Mens Circle

    A Space where Men come together and open up what is going on for themselves in a radically honest way.

    This is Warrior work.

    Currently happening in Taupo & Tokaanu

     

    https://mens-circle.mystrikingly.com

     

    https://menscircle.mystrikingly.com

    Dowsing

    We are energy. Using copper rods I am able to find electrical cable, water & water piping.

    Contact me for more info.

    Ahi o te Manawa

    Located at the Southern end of Lake Taupo is a piece of land for people on the path of transformation are to visit and stay.

    Connect to the land, to the earth, to the weather. Connect with likeminded people who want to live in the Next Culture of Archearchy.

    A place to really live full out.

     

  • The Blog

    Thoughts, musings, and ruminations.

    In the culture we grow up in, there is no distinction given between Feelings and Emotions. Most...
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  • Connection

    I'm available for Pro Bono work in D.C. and Philadelphia area.  

    789 State Highway 41, Tokaanu 3380,
    New Zealand
    (0064) 021 844299